International Women's Day 2018

Women's rights and the push for equality is extremely important to us, as a female-run brand.

We often focus on feminist issues, in particular those that relate to fashion and media (we run an ongoing Ageless Fashion campaign highlighting the lack of representation of women over 40, we have talked about gender and identity inclusive of NB/trans/genderfluid people, we have discussed ethical fashion and how this supports women worldwide, we discussed the objectification of Bettie Page, and we have discussed the male gaze), so we decided to create some stats cards that you can share this International Women's Day to highlight issues and inequality.

It was only in 2009 when Ursula Burns became the first female African American CEO on the list. There have only ever been 64 women CEOs on the list; the first Fortune 500 list was published in 1955.

An analysis of 2017’s violent crime figures for England and Wales shows that one in five women have experienced sexual assault since the age of 16, however, this is just reported crimes – the #metoo movement showed just how common sexual assault and harassment is.

The majority of girls are cut before they turn 15 years old.

Women are not compensated for this work, and many economies don’t calculate it into the country’s GDP. It also takes time away from women that could be spent growing their careers.

Step Up Your Lounge Game

There is surely no feeling more decadent or luxurious than when lounging around in your most sumptuous and comfortable floaty goodness. Whether you are cosying up with a beau on a cold winter evening, or luxuriating in gorgeous spring morning sunshine while enjoying a book and a coffee, there is nothing that beats the opulence of truly decadent loungewear.

Are you a bed-head for whom comfort is always king? Our Smoking Suit PJs are perfect for the ultimate satin-clad cat nap and stylish bedtime routine. Joanie, from the ever-popular Gabi Fresh range, with its sexy lashings of floral lace at the sleeves, is perfection for the curvy loungewear fans.

Nothing is more opulent or swishy than the comfortable, yet oh so stylish, French knicker. With its flattering cut and ample satin fabric it is a classic style that has never gone out of fashion, and for good reason. It is a timeless lingerie drawer must-have, the elegance and comfort of which cannot be beaten. Pair it with our foxy Bettie Page Leopard print satin robe, and make like a sultry retro vixen of old.

The lush devore velvet of our Francois set has been a firm fan favourite – and there are only a few sizes left to snap up! Summoning images of lush long mornings cosied up with a cup of tea, or snug winter evenings by the fire, Francois and Reina are visions of loungewear opulence. We also love to see how our fans have been imaginatively styling both into their outerwear, with the gorgeous flowing satin of Reina doubling up as a sexy evening dress after the manner of old Hollywood glamour; and Francois robe being an easy option for a wrap top.

Looking for something a little more sheer and revealing but still want to stay comfortable? The tulle babydoll from our ever-coveted Bettie Page line fits the bill to a T. The frill-tastic briefs are both playful yet comfortable, and the sheer babydoll is the embodiment of relaxed, luxuriant yet subtly flirty seduction.

We are firm believers that more fabric doesn’t have to mean less sexy – as you can see from our selection of bodysuits, playsuits and teddies. While our lacy and strappy numbers such as Margarita, Maya and Alicia are sure to get you hot under the collar, the velvet lushness of Roxy or dazzling sparkle of Showtime bodysuits can easily be incorporated into spicy outerwear. Since the lingerie-as-outerwear trend is going nowhere fast, why not incorporate Roxy with a sexy pencil skirt, or rock Grace on a night out paired with some sharp tailoring and killer heels?

Over here at Playful Promises HQ we are completely unable to resist the temptation of swishy tassles, and adding the Nadia tassle harness would complete absolutely any look, boudoir or outerwear. Why not try pairing it over our lingerie skirt, throwing the lush sheer tulle robe over the top for some eye-catching swishiness. Comfort and decadence have never looked so good.

We Won A UK Lingerie Award!

To our long-standing fans as well as new customers, it may come as no surprise that Playful Promises has a long history dedicated to excellent customer service, proliferation of innovative, flirty and quirky designs, and commitment to inclusivity in all of its aspects. So it was with great honour and delight that we felt our work had been recognized when we took away the Small Business of the Year Award at the prestigious UK Lingerie Awards! It is one of the biggest events in the intimate apparel calendar with nominees being voted for by industry representatives, celebrating industry excellence.

Going from strength to strength in the last few years, we have been applauded for our inclusive size range, having expanded it over four times since 2015. Playful Promises was one of the first brands in the UK to offer open-cup bras in plus sizes, and one of the few independent brands to have continually expanded sizing. 

Recognizing a demand, we launched a US warehouse and website in late 2016, which has led to growth both via retail and wholesale. To cater to our ever-growing base of customers and fans, as well as selling online we are happy to say that we are also stocked in over 200 stores and boutiques worldwide.

We are passionate about diversity, and are extremely proud of our achievements that have set us apart from other brands. It is heartening to see that several of our notable campaigns have been met with a lot of positive responses and covered by a large number of media outlets.

In April 2017 we released our Ageless Fashion campaign, working with models in their late 60s to challenge society’s definition of beauty and sexuality. This was picked up by the press (and shortlisted for another UK Lingerie Award for Marketing Campaign), recognizing the need to represent beauty and sensuality in women of all ages, something that has thus far been sorely lacking in the industry.

Following the successful launch of our Curve collection in 2016, partnering with Gabi Fresh, a US influencer and plus size swimwear designer felt like a natural progression in 2017. This extended our size range of up to UK size 28 and bra sizes up to 44G and featured outré, trend-led styles. The collaborative plus size lingerie collection has been a sell-out success and was featured in major national and international press such as Glamour and InStyle, creating a huge media buzz.

Another campaign of significance was shooting our Bettie Page Lingerie brand on non-binary drag queen Violet Chachki, signifying our commitment to inclusiveness of all genders and sexualities. This was the first time a drag queen has fronted a lingerie campaign, something we consider to be quite a break-through in the industry. While ground-breaking, we were very pleased to find that the overwhelming response to the campaign has been a positive and encouraging one, with media outlets such as Vogue.It, Harpers Bazaar and Huffington post reporting extensively on it.

As a brand we are thrilled to be recognized for the work we have done in promoting inclusivity and our commitment to excellence in design.

We are therefore pleased to have been shortlisted for the Best Multichannel Retailer Under £25m Turnover Award at the upcoming Drapers Digital Awards 2018 which will be taking place in April. The awards form part of the wider Drapers Digital Festival which brings together more than 700 professionals to celebrate excellence in the ecommerce industry. We hope you are all wishing us luck!

Giveaway: Valentine's Self-Love

The Valentine's season can get pretty tiring, we know. Whether you are living your perfectly valid and awesome single life, or you prefer year-round romance, one thing is for certain: self-love and self-care is important.

Lingerie is for nobody but you; for your confidence, to help you love your body. Anything else is just a bonus!

We're giving away a £100/$100 voucher that can be used on either our UK or US website on our entire range of delicious lingerie and swimwear.

All you need to do to enter is comment on this post telling us what you love about yourself!

It doesn't have to be something physical; maybe you love that you have a certain skill, or that you have conquered a goal that you recently set for yourself.

For extra chances to win, you can become a fan of us on facebook, follow our twitter, follow our Instagram or sign up to our newsletter (if you have done this already, it still counts). Follow the instructions on the rafflecopter below!

The winner will be picked at random on Thurs 8th Feb.

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Lingerie & Identity: How lingerie allows us to live unapologetically in our bodies

Here at Playful Promises we have never been known to shirk away from a challenge, or from controversy. It has always been our aim and brand mission to be as inclusive as possible, pushing and breaking the boundaries of what is considered “safe” and “acceptable” representation in fashion and in lingerie specifically. From working with more people of colour in our campaigns and collaborations (such as teaming up with Gabi Fresh for a collection), to being one of the first independent lingerie brands continuously expanding size ranges, Playful Promises has been unwavering in its dedication to inclusive, intersectional feminism, and being pro-active in the fight against body snark.

Photographing Violet Chachki, the winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 7, was a natural progression of our ethos by including a non-binary model and performer as the face of our latest Bettie Page launch. With her stunning femme-fatale looks and sumptuous vintage styling, it could not possibly have been a better choice, and received an overwhelmingly positive response both from our fans and the press. The outpouring of support has felt validating, heart-felt and enormously gratifying. It also illustrates further, if any illustration was needed, how sorely diverse representation is lacking in the fashion industry.

With this in mind, we asked few non-binary/trans and gender-queer fans about their take on representation, and the role lingerie plays in it. We spoke to Vikki Le, a fashion and graphic designer based in New York; Australian MUA, artist and activist Ruby Allegra; London-based gallery producer and artist Parma Ham; and US-based full-time drag queen Louisianna Purchase - and asked them to share their views on our Violet Chachki-fronted campaign, the importance of inclusivity, and how their lingerie choices help to inform their gender identity.

Vikki Le wearing the Bettie Page Lingerie Emerald Overwire Set

What does non-binary mean to you?

Parma Ham quotes Oscar Wilde in response – “To define is to limit”, adding that “being non-binary is the experience of myself without rigid and enclosing definition”. Ruby elaborated by adding that “my genderfluidity is exactly that – fluid. Just as my identity shifts, so does my knowledge and understanding of what genderfluidity means to me.”

What considerations do you make when choosing lingerie? What do you look for?

“Fancy lingerie is what we as people wear to fulfill other people’s fantasies”, muses Vikki, “I wear it to fulfill mine”. The theme of lingerie representing confidence and sexuality is a recurring one, with Louisianna adding that “Lingerie sets the mood for me. I feel most powerful and seductive in lingerie.” Ruby also highlights the importance of comfort, both physically and mentally – “as a disabled person, lingerie has been a very important part of my work towards radical self acceptance, body positivity and the unlearning of ableist beauty standards”. Both Vikki and Ruby are also quick to highlight the importance of colour in how lingerie makes them feel and in setting the mood.

Parma Ham wearing the Bettie Page Lingerie Hand Print set

 How do you go about styling your look and how do you work lingerie into it?

“Lingerie is either the spotlight or a necessary layer that I never skip!” – Louisianna muses enthusiastically, adding that “lingerie is definitely a staple in my wardrobe”. Parma Ham adds – “The way lingerie frames the body is so important. Well chosen lingerie can transform my boyish body into something highly feminine”.

How important is it to have queer, trans and non-binary visibility in lingerie?

Ruby raises an important question – “If non-binary people, for example only see images of cisgender or binary-gendered people celebrating their bodies through wearing and enjoying lingerie, what message does that send about non-binary or genderqueer bodies?”; adding that “we live in a very heteronormative and cisnormative society, which often does not respect or acknowledge queer, trans and non-binary identities as being real, valid or worthy.” Vikki adds another important point, pointing out that “we are more than just victims or sexual fantasies”. Louisianna adds that the importance of representation is a useful tool in breaking down stereotypes and current societal boundaries. Parma Ham elaborates, commenting on the current state of global affairs, adding that “Right now everyone under the trans and queer umbrella needs as much visibility and as many positive narratives as possible. Seeing queer people in lingerie is a gentle reminder that we too are human, we too are beautiful and desirable”. 

Louisianna Purchase wearing the Bettie Page Lingerie Leopard Overwire set, photo by Ruby Knight

What would you like to see more of from lingerie/clothing companies? How can they be more inclusive?

Vikki states categorically that what they see to be a current trend is “more than just an image, it’s a movement and if you’re a good ally then make sure to give us the platforms to share our stories and visibility.” This point could not have been echoed strongly enough among the rest of our respondents, with Parma Ham emphasizing the importance of using genderqueer and non-binary models not simply as tokens. “Reducing the use of gender-specific language, and perhaps incorporating more gender neutral vocabulary” is a simple yet far-reaching change that any brand can implement, Ruby suggests. “I would love to see more bodies, ALL bodies in lingerie”, adds Louisianna, “It's important that they can feel fabulous too.”

How is lingerie important to your identity?

“Lingerie sets the mood for me. I feel most powerful and seductive in lingerie”, muses Louisianna; the theme of lingerie representing confidence and sexuality is a recurring one, with Vikki adding that “it’s a whole act of seduction and power”. Furthermore, there is no denying the transformative power of lingerie, with Parma Ham noting that “I value the power of transformation, and the freedom to not commit to either masculinity or femininity, this is where I feel most comfortable.” Vikki goes as far as describing the act of wearing lingerie as an “act of rebellion”, since wearing lingerie was not something they were always able to do throughout their life. Lingerie, it appears unanimously, represents both strength and freedom.

How do you foresee the Violet Chachki fronted Bettie Page campaign being received by others?

Ruby sees it as a “really great, refreshing step towards visibility and representation for sexually and gender diverse people”, with Parma Ham adding that it’s another kick to the rigidity of the binary – “I think everyone can benefit from society being less strict on what you can and cannot wear.” Louisianna reiterates its importance in breaking boundaries for LGBTQIA folks.

Ruby Allegra

It is evident that the power of representation for socially marginalized groups cannot be overstated, nor can the change come too soon, with Ruby concluding that “sexuality is a huge part of many people’s identities, so denying groups of people the access and means to explore that can be very harmful. A lack of representation can lead to isolation and serious issues relating to self-esteem, body image and mental health”.

Here at Playful Promises we are hopeful that our contribution to the fight towards greater representation is just one step among countless in the right direction.